Lies we tell our ex-spouse.
After a breakup or divorce, if you eventually get to speak with your ex-spouse again, there are some lies you always get to hear from them especially if they want to get back with you.
Below are the lies we tell our ex-spouse.
Read also: How to heal fast from a breakup.
I’ll never love anyone as I loved you.”
Your ex-spouse will always tell you they will never love anyone as they loved you if they want to get back with you. but sometimes this is always a lie. However, one 2014 report from the Pew Research Center found that 67 percent of people between the ages of 55 to 64 got remarried, so suffice it to say that you’re quite likely to fall in love again after you get divorced.
No one will ever love you as I did.
Though this is more of a manipulation than a lie, The fact of the matter is that someone will love you and someone will likely love them, too. it might be different, but that doesn’t necessarily mean worse.
I never thought about other people when we were together.
Even in the happiest of relationships, it’s only natural for people to fantasize about celebrities, coworkers, or cute strangers from the bar.
I’m not seeing anyone new.
If you and your spouse did part on good terms, then the last thing you want to do is upset them with the news that you’re dating again. so they will always tell you they do not have a new date.
When your ex asks how you’re doing, you fake a smile and inform them that things are “fine,” because you feel that It’s none of their business and you know that It’ll only make you feel worse knowing that your ex knows that they still have control over your emotions.
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